Each of us go through times when we need to prove ourself, justify ourself, convince others we are right or something similar. We have also gone through times, when we have, with pure intentions, done all good for people and under covers of situational apperances and misunderstandings we are back stabbed. We have all seen people who seem to be really busy and with no absolute time at all (as per their claims), but they seem to have all the time in the world to speak rubbish about others (in more crude terms bitch about others).
At some or the other point of our life, career or growth chart we are bound to encounter such instances when some of the above happen to us. So let's be mentally prepared and have our purpose clear. Let's make a few of the lines below as our thumbrules and live better!
(They are few of my facebook updates: Together they make a great lesson! (hence, the title))
1. All have weaknesses! So before you point your fingers at someone else's flaws look into yourself and you will realise - "lifetime is too short to correct yourself"! Happy Self-Leadership! :)
2. JUSTIFICATION is the weapon for people, who are weak in their deeds!
3. When we spend time justifying who we are, we lose time from the task of creating who we could be. So lets not believe in justifying ourselves. Let our deeds do it for us. God knows the truth.
4. Scores of people ask me, why do I never hate people. My logic is simple - in this short life (assuming life span: 65 yrs) of 23,741 days, APPROX 2/3rds of days will be lost in sleeping and other redundant reasons.
Rest what remains - approx. 7300 days, means a lot to me and I believe is a real short time with big visions to be accomplished and lots of close, semi close and not so close people to be loved...:) why lose time hating people. GOD IS THERE NO!
5. At all stages you will meet loads of people, who will back stab you. Even amazing are the people, who will stab you in the face. So what, get up and keep walking. After all thats life. Back stabbing is seasonal, if it starts, it has an end as well. Life is permanent. Love all, live tall.
6. Off late people have been asking me, why dont you talk negative about people who talk negative about you. My answer: Why waste time doing something which someone else is doing it. Lets do something else and that which is more positive!!! :):) What say guys?
Note: These are applicable under circumstances, when you know your intentions, your deeds have been pure and good.
Let's talk positive: Do you have time to justify yourself to otherwise people(not so wise)? Do you have time to hate backstabbers?(forgive and forget, newly - forgive, but dont forget) In case you have time for all this, then for sure you have small dreams and small purposes in your life. Kindly make changes now. For, LIFE IS ONCE!