"Pain is Permanent". (It just changes from one form to another)

We are all in search of lives where we are looking forward to live life, that can be without pain & full of pleasure.

We are all in continuous efforts, to reduce pain and at number of occasions, even blaming god for the kind of painful lives he has given to us. Man is an animal who passes justifications of his convenience and hence finds himself in misery all the time.

If only, we stopped justifying out of convenience and started accepting few things as given truths and that we have to live them, by chance & with no choice, we would be more happier. After all, thats the ultimate goal of life. (ultimate is higher above, but for our earthly existence, happiness is peaks of glorious life.)

We blame situations, circumstances and people for our painful situations of life, for the pain we need to go through. But we seldom realise what is that pain all about?

The pain we exclaim and crib about, is nothing but, a certain set of expectations gathered during the journey of life, from the surrounding we groomed ourselves in, from the people around us, whom we relentlessly, without choice observed making choices, and hence took an emoitional growth of our own.

Felt pain, for what pain meant to them, felt joy for what meant joy to them. As we grew, we thought we were gathering our own wisdom, and learning to build our own value system of pain, pleasure and happiness (PPH).

But eventually the viscious circle didnt leave us there. Seldom were we found not caught in the PPH arena of emotions.

Pain is totally subjective. A situation of pain to someone, is a situation of joy or challenge for someone else.

I urge my readers to introspect about things that are causing you pain, list them down and do the following:
1. Ignore some, which are irrelevant.
2. Accept few which cannot be changed.
3. Take action for which immediate rectification is possible.
4. Cut expectations and set a belief system.
(for more differences on belief and expectation read my blog: A very thin line between Expectation & Belief.)
5. Stop focussing on the word pain. Believe - it's all the plan of god.
6. Last but not the least: "PATIENCE & FAITH".

(expecting to solve all your problems and be sure of applying the above written things in one shot or after one reading is yet another pain)

"Hope to see you free of pain in life". Be allergic to this statement, for this is false. None is free of pain. It's just that you apply the above six things and convert pain into gain and happiness. Pain is permanent. It just changes form, either changes to pleasure with perception or converts itself into another form of pain.

So, my dear readers, God bless you all with the strength & wisdom to deal with your pain in the right manner.

(c) copyrights, 2011. Original content. Published by Sujit Lalwani.