It has been quite sometime since I brought myself to this page, to write down something that will express what I think & feel and eventually help my readers gain some insight into principles of life & install a few extra feathers into the wings of wisdom...
May be what caused the delay itself was the cause for upgradation of software on my head, to be able to bring something totally deep & fresh. The wisdom this post brings along friends might be something you may not expect from an inspirational blog like mine, but I believe a true inspirational article is one that prepares you for hard times than just give you faith over winning the easy ones.
This blog is an output of the most challenging & demanding time of my life, on the personal & professional front, & I triumphed over it. Success is not just the story you tell on the professional front. Unless your personal side of the story is filled with love, care, friends & family, the success seems to be hollow & loneliness seems to follow. The biography might sound exciting, thrilling & inspirational to read, but autobiography showing the reality of your feelings will include a chapter, not just a page, to tell a tale how lonely the man was when he reached the top.
Hence it is essential to strike the balance in life on the personal & professional front. You need a friend who comforts you, that family which supports you like a floor, pillar, walls, ceiling & a wing (as per your requirement), that special someone of your life - your spouse or yet to be, those colleagues who just love to work with you and your mentors who would love to guide you looking at your commitment levels. You NEED all of them. It is quite important to build attitudes and time schedules which can cater to them all. Majority cannot prioritise and hence their stories impact a smaller part of the world. People who fight hard to strike this balance, fail miserably a number of times, but eventually when they come out glorious have life stories which can lead generations to come.
But amidst all these efforts of yours, trying hard to strike balance between love for work, love for family, friends, hobbies, passions & other things, there are phases which can cruel, hard, devastating & very unexpected, which set things off track for you in one shot.
Imagine changing the orbit of the earth in a blink of the eye, it would simply mean different calendar, different schedules for day & night, different types of weather cycles, climatic conditions etc. May be all of it may mean a planet with no life at all. But the challenge is to still be full of life even when the orbit has been changed & achieving that is the highest state of leadership. Some incidents of your life, may throw you into an orbit, that may leave you lifeless & barren, but it is then that the lesson in this blog should come back to your mind, & you should be able to tell yourself that there is hope, Simply because You are not a planet!!!
Sit down with yourself, put down all that's worth living for still, all those who still love you, no matter how much they do, all those people who still expect from you, all those things still worth fighting for, all those dreams yet unfulfilled & believe me these seeds sown on the land with changed conditions shall bring a new era of plantations & vegetation, new life, new atmospheric conditions & color shall seem to everywhere once again. Never the same as before but yet bright & beautiful. As once the young inspirational speaker, Sujit Lalwani quoted in one of his talks "The purpose of life is not to keep repeating history, The purpose is to keep creating history"
To conclude I summarise it simply - "everything is not under our control but choosing to react to every situtation with a heart that is crying or with a heart that is still trying is definitely under our control."
I request my reader to title this blog, because I believe it is something that reflects each of your stories and hence I could not name it "My life". Its OUR LIFE rather I would name it - just "LIFE". Waiting to read the titles you give to this one!
This is definitely wisdom beyond a title.. many might read and say " we've read it before or we know it".. But thats where the diffrence lies- between knowledge and wisdom! This piece of text truly potrays pure wisdom. The lines hold a lot of depth and the lines in between speak of the intensity with which you mean every word.. thanx for sharing this with us coz there are many more of us who aspire to strike this balance.. Great work!
ReplyDeleteGreat analogy wid the usage of orbit of earth and planets :) message beautifully conveyed through that!
ReplyDelete'vibgyor'...suddenly from somewhere there appears a rainbow in the sky.....unexpected, colourful, hope and bright n beautiful....thats what you have instilled in our minds with this blog sir....really amazing...:)
ReplyDeleteSpeechless sir!! No wonder you couldn't come up with a title because this is larger than life...... Your perception levels are beyond imagination!!! On top of that, to pen them down so clearly is not something just anyone can do... Hats off!!
ReplyDelete'Unexpected turn in life-fight like a soldier'
ReplyDeleteHere the known fact is all about the normal lifestyle according to ones desire of capabilities.No one knows future is a common truth & the entire unexpected changed condition will always be challenging.God creates a trouble situation 4 a person according 2 1ce limitation.
Just pray to God then defnietly hardwork will result fruitfull instead never curse him,incase if u-full pain no gain.
To conclude I summarise it simply - "everything is not under our control but choosing to react to every situtation with a heart that is crying or with a heart that is still trying is definitely under our control."
The above inspiring sentence reflects logic of life which should be applied by every individual with making of every decision & carry along with prescence of mind as a moto in life.Than i'm sure ther will be no bad thought,from disputes to sucide death on earth.
Think POSITIVE,be a super logic calculator,know possibilities of happening in reality,never go 4 short term happiness instead work hard step ahead bit by bit 4 long term satisfied goals which will sure take to a great height.Have patience till the end as it plays a vital role.
ALWAYS BE GOOD & DO GOOD-IF SO GOD WILL ALWAYS BE WITH YOU
Sujitji,thanks a lot for this wonderfull blog.who ever read this will follow your words in there tough times & thank u for this.
"I believe a true inspirational article is one that prepares you for hard times than just give you faith over winning the easy ones." This quote itself is so inspiring.. Sir not just by articles but u have shown it by ur life itself..
ReplyDeleteThis blog literally opens a person's mind to get a new way, who thinks that his/her life ends there and also to understand the life in a better way.. Definitely one shud never lose hopes...
The entire last stanza takes us to a different world.. I'm feeling as though am hypnotised and am goin in a very calm world of MINE.. where I can c my ppl.. coz its my world.. Hats off to u sir..
other lesson from here is that confidence helps one to set an aim and self confidence helps to achieve the same :):)
Sir trust me whenever I felt lonely, swear on god- From inside I can hear a voice telling SUJITJI is there wit u don worry.. Keep blessing sir.. Thanks for this blog .. too good
I would title it as- "A Way(to live life), for them who say no way(in life)"
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i havnt decided the title but then i definately decided to post sth..........i hav just finished reading dis article for 3 times in a row n every time i read it, i found sth touchy somewhere.......it ws like readin a poetry n d summary iz definately so freshning......can tears tear us apart?? definatly not....:::::))))
ReplyDeleteit is so true to understand about the life aspects sir u r truelly inspired a lot through this blog many things to do to make an history,hats off for your vision.......no words to express we need your blessings to progress...................thank you so much for every thing sir...........................
ReplyDelete"Insight of Life" or may be " Insight of Living" ...This is what I wud like to title..
ReplyDeleteAwesome sir!! Sir so crisp and so clear. Simple words but still holds so much of gravity. I feel this article has all the possible subjects. Our reactions is what we control. Superb Sir!
ReplyDeleteWell out of ideas on what the article can be titled because there are so many that are coming into my mind. "Life: the way you see it" or "Realization"
"Ideal Living" is what i would suggest for a title
ReplyDeleteawsum!!!!we should always aspire for success,in fact new everytym...as said create history not repeat history...:)
ReplyDeleteSTOP NOT TILL THE GOAL IS REACHED!!!!
ReplyDeletenice one sir everyone wants a balance in life & have their dreams the title for it must be "as you wish"
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